Ever wonder why you swear or use four letter words? Some people say it simply demonstrates our poor command of the language. Others say it is simply laziness. I am not sure. I met a famous psychologist many years ago who was well known for using many four letter w
I was recently asked by a person doing a PH D research project to complete a questionaire about my use of Self Help books. I realized that I have bought and read many. I think I have bought more than I have read but still I have read many on many subjects. I was asked wh
Change is a difficult thing for me to do. My behavior is based on my belief about life, the universe and everything. Many of beliefs are kept hidden from me by me. When my current situation is intolerable, then I start to consider changing. When I decide t
Cause of Anti-social Behavior When I exhibit anti-social behavior, I do it because I am feeling discouraged. I have low self esteem. However I am completely in control of my own self esteem. How can you say that, Jim, what about all these terrible things that happ
Ever wonder why you do the things you do? We do not learn things by reading them or by being told. We learn from life's expereinces. We develop a model about how the world is and remember things that reinforce that belief. We form most of our world view by the
Recently I read an old blog by Tom Peters about Job's management style and it really struck a cord about what being passionate meant. Green is Green. NOT! Harvey had an interesting view on moving forward on an innovative idea. "Be Passionate."
Could not resist posting this. Try to read it to someone else with a straight face. I could not. "As a bagpiper, I play many gigs. Recently I was asked by a funeral director to play at a graveside service for a homeless man. He had no family or friends
In setting strategy, we need to have an overall vision or overall goal. The diagram is a way of thinking strategy and planning. My idea comes from the theory of Alfred Adler who talked about motivation and said the human organism is motivated to goal. Without a goal, the
In 1975, at Gellman-Hayward we got a Apple LISA based a suggetion by Joe Cira. It was a stand alone computer with an amazing user interface. We really liked it but the hardware was not very reliable. I then got MacIntosh in 1977 which I truly loved and was so easy